Today is my birthday (14th January), and I thought about this question:
“Knowing what I know about my life, what would I advise Bishal Sarkar’s 2019 version (1 year younger Bishal Sarkar) if I could write to him?”
Here’s the letter I wrote:
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Hey Bishal
Happy Birthday, man.
You’re achieving amazing things in life.
You’re creating amazing difference in peoples’ lives. And you’re doing everything taking complete responsibility. Day by day you’re being much kinder to people. And the way you help strangers even though they don’t know you is very inspiring.
I have a couple of suggestions for you on this special day. I know you have an open mind when taking advice from friends & mentors, so here are a few…
1. Face your fears daily.
2. Keep walking every day like you do now.
3. Write more letters to your life partner, she loves reading your letters.
4. Spend more time with Bibek every day.
5. Wake up early.
6. Forgive quickly.
7. Feed more people. I know you feed a lot of people. But you can do more.
8. Give blankets to more & more homeless people. People need your help, Bishal.
9. Do meditation daily.
10. Drink water more often.
11. Charge more for your 1-on-1 mentoring (because you always provide MASSIVE TRANSFORMATION).
12. Do more positive self-talk throughout the day.
13. Keep your martial arts on.
14. Thank people more often. Verbally, emotionally & in writing.
15. Talk more about your vision. Speak it out brother!
16. Don’t mind about small little comments/events. They really don’t matter in the long run.
17. Cry when you want to. Never block your tears. Let them flow.
18. The world rewards boldness. Be bolder.
19. Let go of people who are here to stop you from reaching your big goals in life. Simply delete them from your mind.
20. Don’t expect gratitude from everyone. Do your work in the BEST way and move on. You’re not here to be in spotlight. You’re here to impact people so they can shine their soul.
21. Don’t expect apology from everyone. If you expect apology from others when they do wrong, and they don’t apologize---- it will DISTURB you and take away your peace.
22. Say “I Love You” more often to your family members.
23. Hold your Anupama’s hands and tell her: “I’m proud of you” more often. She’s such an amazing person. How do I know she’s an amazing person? Well, she’s tolerating someone like you, man! :D
Bishal, you’re doing amazing things in life. A couple of years ago you were broke, you were hopeless, and you used to be in depression.
Now in 2019 you do what you love, you spend great time with your family and you’re f-nancial-ly f-r.ee, you’ve been featured in TIMES OF INDIA, conscious mill---ionaire. I respect you for it. Value the close people who care for you. They believe in you.
Bishal, know that you can dream bigger. You can act bigger. You can help so many poor people by providing them with the EXAMPLE in front of them.
A bigger life is waiting for you…to LIVE IT.
Love openly. Forgive quickly. And smile more often.
Bishal, you’re a ROCKSTAR. Happy birthday, and have an AWESOME 2019.
- Future Bishal Sarkar in 2020
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That’s the letter I wrote to my 1-year younger version.
What about you?
If you could write YOUR 1-year younger self a letter with some advice, what would you add in that letter?
Anyways.
Family is forcing me to cake in the evening haha. I have a busy day here. Going for an amazing lunch with Anupama and then she has some surprise for me, God knows what! And then in the evening some relatives are coming (with more cakes!) and we will have dinner together as a family at my grandfather's place.
I will have to go for a long walk after eating so much.
Take care, and be well. My blessings are with you.
About the author: Bishal Sarkar, popularly known as “THE KING OF CONFIDENCE”, is called the best motivational speaker of Bangalore India. Bishal is the creator of “Present like a Champ Boot Camp” (The Best Public Speaking Course in Bangalore) where he teaches the participants the step-by-step easy-to-follow process of public speaking success. He regularly speaks to professionals, youth groups, corporate groups, and trains people from various walks of life and brings out the excellence within them. As the author of the book “I Love Public Speaking”, Bishal now teaches professionals how to overcome fear of public speaking and deliver powerful presentations using the proven formula of speaking & presentation success, through his public speaking courses & communication skills classes in Bangalore. He also helps aspiring speakers by teaching them How to become a motivational speaker in India. People say that he has designed the best presentation skills classes & public speaking workshops in Bangalore. For enrolling in Bishal Sarkar’s Best Public Speaking Course in Bangalore, call us on +91-88803-61526.
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